SueB asked:


My fiance does not want to live in military family housing after we marry. He said he hears so many stories of cheating by both spouses and he doesn’t want me exposed to that lifestyle. It would be a lot cheaper and I would like to know what other people think.
We trust each other and our couples friends are all pretty decent but he says the atmosphere on base housing is nasty and he’s disgusted because there are so many children living in that mess.

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ncgirl asked:


Why or why not?

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yagman asked:


Yesterday someone asked a question as to who was more to blame when a spouse cheats on their husband or wife. The questioner asked whether the married cheater or the one outside the marriage who the cheater is having *** with was more to blame. I thought it was interesting that the questioner did not consider the possibility that the spouse being cheated upon might have some blame themselves.

Robert (fictitious name) and Judy (also ficticious) were good friends of my wife and me for several years. We spent quite a bit of time together. Almost without exception, sometime while we were together Robert would make some type of joking comment having to do with how seldom the two of them had ***. We would laugh and they would laugh and then the subject would change.

After several years, Robert started cheating on Judy and she found out. He left town and they got a divorce. Talking with Robert after the divorce I found out that the comments he had been making were not just made in jest. Their *** life had almost completely dried up to the point where she was demanding he sleep in a separate room.

It is my belief that Judy was withholding *** in an effort to motivate Robert to cheat. That way when he actually did, she could file for divorce and make him out to look like the bad guy. And that’s EXACTLY what happened. The ladies at church rallied around Judy saying things like how terrible Robert was to do what he had done. That ********* Robert. How could he have done such a thing to you. Boo Hoo!

I am sure there were conflicts within the marriage that lead to a fall off in their sexuality. But I am also sure that Judy got EXACTLY what she wanted. She didn’t want counseling. She didn’t want reconciliation. She didn’t want to be married. So she forced the issue.

So you tell me. Who was more to blame? I believe that ALL THREE share the blame in a situation like this.
I believe many have not understood my question. I never said that Judy’s actions in any way JUSTIFIED what Robert did. I said there is enough BLAME to go around between ALL of them.

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angelwoman1966 asked:


What would u do if you were married for 22 years and your spouse cheated on you and you filed for divorce,then he/she was in a very bad accident that left him/her paralized for the rest of their life?

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simplylovely asked:


I am now engaged to a Marine who is a perfect man for me. But before him, I had a very bad relationship. The guy I was with for 3 years accused me of cheating every time I talked to a man. Turned out, he cheated on me. (His reason is he was insecure. It is absolutely the first time I heard that lame excuse.) After the ex cheated on me, he begged me to stay, and I was so tempted to cheat on him because I was bitter. Finally, I decided I couldn’t deal with it anymore. So I left. My fiance is a complete different man compare to my ex, I am so glad that I never cheated on my ex because I sure don’t want to be labeled as a “cheater” because my fiance told me he could not go out with anybody who cheated. because once a cheater, always a cheater. My fiance once asked me what makes me want to cheat or attempt to cheat, I told him the ONLY time I am attempted is when the other person cheats on me. He says he knows where I am coming from. Just out of curiosity, have you ever thought about
cheating on your partner, and what are your reasons. Thank you

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Tiger Eyes asked:


Or would you rather not even know and either find out yourself or never ever know anything about the affair??

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Angel2008 asked:


then did the spouse cheat again or was the spouse able to really give up the lying and deciet? Lets hear your stories! good or bad.

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2dang cute asked:


I went to my husband business today and he forgot to close out his email. I found that he had paid for a gold membership to adultfriend finder and had other memberships to those types of sites. Is that cheating? I am so embarrassed and confused and I wonder how long has this been going on and what else has he done. am i wrong

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Lesson Learned asked:


I can honestly say, it’s worth it. My husband is the nicest man I know, he accepts me even though he knows my so called secret. I have cried and even wanted him to get angry at me,but he won’t. I had my reasons for wanting to cheat, none of them acceptable, however. I used to sneer at people who advised against cheating, but they are all right. Cheating is never acceptable.

I didn’t have *** with the person, but an emotional affair. The other man turned against me and now I feel really bad that I trusted him. Never, ever, ever have an affair.It’s just not worth your peace of mind. I know some of you are thinking that your life ***** already, what difference does it make. It makes a big difference. Don’t do it. I feel so bad, that I have to move from my current address, with my family.

I hope that I can help someone who is contemplating cheating. Don’t do it. Right now you may seem in control,but you’re really not. Trust me.

Sorry, no question just a statement.
meant to say***it’s NOT worth it. Sorry for the typo

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?2323vsb asked:


how are you coping. really.
i discovered my husband has been contacting several women on various singles websites. even sending one $1000.
i’m not okay.

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